In an Instagram post published on Sunday, Thomas Neuwirth, known professionally as Eurovision contest winner Conchita Wurst, came out as HIV positive, saying that she was forced to discuss her status publicly because a former partner was looking to blackmail her.
Wurst said she had not intended to speak publicly about her status.
“An ex-boyfriend is threatening me to go public with this private information,” Wurst wrote on Instagram, “and I will not give anyone the right to frighten me and affect my life in the future.”
Wurst’s original post is in German, though the New York Times did translate some select quotes.
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When Wurst came out, she also indicated that he has been in treatment for several years and that her virus is undetectable. The medical community has reached a near consensus that being undetectable means being unable to transmit the virus.
Wurst first rose to fame in 2014 when she won the Eurovision songwriting contest for Austria. It was the country’s first victory in the competition since 1966.
While Wurst’s status disclosure and post about her health indicate are an important reminder of what it means to be undetectable, it’s also a sad reminder for the threats of intimate partner violence that people living with HIV often face.
The National Coalition of Anti Violence Programs defines IPV as “a pattern of behavior where one intimate partner coerces, dominates, or isolates another intimate partner to maintain power and control over the partner and the relationship.”
Much of the research regarding HIV-positive people and intimate partner violence often focuses on women in opposite-sex relationships, but the available data about LGBTQ and HIV-affected people reflects Wurst’s reality. According to Anti-Violence Project’s 2015 report on LGBTQ people, HIV and IPV, 13% of LGBTQ and HIV-affect IPV survivors people experienced threats and intimidation like Wurst.
One 2011 study found that, among HIV-positive respondents, 73% had reported either verbal, physical or sexual abuse in their lifetime, while 20% reported current ongoing physical abuse.
People living with HIV often become news stories because of intimate partner violence, as well. In 2012, Cicely Bolden, a black HIV-positive woman living in Texas, garnered national headlines when she was killed by her partner Larry Dunn after she disclosed her status to him. Media reports often cast Bolden’s disclosure as the problem, rather than Dunn’s own stigma.
“She killed me, so I killed her,” Dunn reportedly said in an interview following Bolden’s death at his hands, Huffington Post reported.
Wurst wrote on Instagram that she hopes to “take another step against the stigmatization of people who have become infected by HIV.”
Now, against her will, Wurst must navigate living openly with HIV and the attached stigma. But, it’s important to remember that Wurst’s ex partner would not be able to intimidate him if there were not still such a stigma surrounding the virus and those who have it.